Love and Romance advice and information, they include news articles, research studies, and everything related to relationships and marriage, this blog will provide you with many useful steps to improve your relationships and help you live a healthier love life
Her love is like a magnet, she captures hearts with a power greater than cupid, she doesn't throw arrows, she'll blow you a kiss instead, a kiss so exotic, it'll touch you deep in your spirit, open the flood gates, she has drowned your heart. Awakening the beauty of romance is her goal, she desires to draw you in closer, she wishes to entice and embrace you. How delightful, her grace, her elegance. The Princess of Agape invites you to welcome bliss, love and harmonized peace into your heart. Will you accept? Love is patient, Love endures, Love awaits.
Courting or courtship, is a way of evaluating if someone is a potential lifetime partner, If this person is appropriate and suitable for marriage, someone they can settle down with. Courting is traditionally a religious view, but I would like to say its also a great way to truly find someone actually worth being with.
If you are someone that has gone through the cycle of multiple partners and have been unsuccessful in finding the right one for you, then I would encourage courting as your choice of finding that special someone in your life, by taking things slow, you learn more about yourself and your potential partner.
Why not take your time and really get to know each other? The reward of doing so would be tremendous, building your friendship on key principles such as: trust, faithfulness and loyalty, now if you can accomplish this as a friend (Courtship) then it will definitely work in your favor, because you have demonstrated true marriage and relationship material to your potential partner.
Also keep in mind, when the two of you decide to go out, try to be considerate and allow joint decision making, this way you both can benefit from the experience and grow closer as a result. Joint Decision making is a very relevant way for you and your date to get along and enjoy things together, because you don't want to make the mistake of going somewhere your partner wouldn't like or enjoy.
Within the first few months, your focus should be getting to know each other and understanding the needs and desires of one another. By putting their needs first you can effectly acknowledge and correct problems that may arise, and also explore and learn about pass experiences to be able to address any issues and problems that may come up.
But the real issue is that sometimes we don't learn from our pass experiences, and we therefore continue to make them over and over again. So look within ones self and figure out what you can do next time to prevent a relationship from falling apart. Only you have the key, only you have the answer, and only you know what you have done in the past, but no matter what you have done, you can always fix it and make it right the next time around.
Remember for every action produces a reaction whether good or bad, so this time around be sure the end result is a positive one.
It runs deeper than oceans, it shines brighter then the stars. It can give you strength and embrace you and cloth you in an aura making you glow, seperating you. It desires you it wishes to live within you and unlock the essence locked and trapped, but it has the key to unlock you and make you blossom like a spring season rose. As angles fly upward so does your spirit when you experience the essence of romance.
Author: Bennie Hubbard
Published: May 24, 2011 at 11:16 pm
No more Mr. Nice guy and bright smiles, For men who desire attraction from the opposite sex, according to a new study from the University of British Columbia. It showed that women find smug, gloomy "bad boys" more attractive than "nice guys."
This new study which was published in the journal Emotion revealed some of the different responses men and women give to certain emotions like happiness, pride and shame based on their sexual attraction or what they consider attractive.
It was once thought that smiling and being pleasant was essential when trying to make a good impression, but the study found that "men and women respond very differently to displays of emotion, including smiles," the author of the study Jessica Tracy, a professor of psychology at the university, said in a written statement.
To conduct the study, more than 1,000 adult participants were asked to rate the sexual attractiveness of hundreds of images of the opposite sex. The images showed people in displays of happiness and cheerfulness (bright smiles), pride (raised head, puffed-up chest), also sadness and shame (lowered head, averted eyes).
Who did the women go for? The study showed they favored guys who looked conceited or glum and depressed. But the guys were most sexually attracted to women who looked happy, and less attracted to those who appeared superior and confident.
Tracy and her co-author, graduate student Alec Beall, said women may have evolved to find proud guys attractive because pride implies status, competence and an ability to provide for a partner and offspring. furthermore previous research has associated smiling with a lack of dominance - which men seem to find attractive in a mate, but not the other way around.
Beall also pointed out in the statement that the people in the study weren't asked to evaluate men on the basis of whether they might make a good mate. "We wanted their gut reactions on carnal, sexual attraction," he said.
Author: Bennie Hubbard "Romance Topics"
Published: March 24, 2011 at 4:39 pm
According to a research survey conducted by Neal Roese, professor of marketing at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Business, Women are more likely than man to have regrets about their romantic life. In the field of romantic relationships, everyone seems to have made decisions they had come to regret, says Neal Roese.
In the survey, about 370 adults across the US, between the ages of 20 and 80 years old, were asked to tell what they felt was some of the biggest issues in their past they regretted. The survey which was conducted over the phone concluded that about 44 percent of women listed romance, however only 19 percent of the men mentioned it, Roese said in the study published in journal Social Psychological and Personality Science. Much of the romantic regrets were about "the one that got away, a missed opportunity or someone you knew in college with whom it didn't quite work out," he said.
The second-most common regret centered on family issues, such as a desire to have been kinder to a loved one. Others regretted not attending college or not divorcing sooner, or choosing material items over a life's passion.
Roese said many of those who took part in the survey were eager to do so, and some even became tearful as they spoke.
This survey directly points out how women, are most effected by their past romance. Making them wish and wonder how they may have fixed the burned out flame “old romance”. Furthermore, it points out that we all have regrets whether it be romance or not attending college. I think the reason more women regret their past romance, is simply because of our society and the environment in which we live in.
Women are much more emotionally attached then men are, they care about finding the right person and if they fall short of this goal they will have regrets about it and long for it in the future, thinking they may have been better off with someone from a past relationship. When it comes to admitting regrets, romance happens to be the most common source of nagging anxiety, particularly among women, according to an American researcher.
What is Love? Love is a divine feeling of infinite possibilities, a feeling of eternal happiness, and an embrace of spiritual peace. Where your mind can meditate in a state of bliss for seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years its eternal. It can fill your body with endless feeling, the feelings are the essence of love it is the foundation. What would you build on this foundation?
It could be one of jealousy, hatred, sadness or one of profound enlightment, one of true delight, one of pure satisfaction. Love is not one way it is infinite, from sadness to happiness. Which would you choose? Your heart longs for it, your heart cries out to it, so please welcome it into your heart and you will experience something unique, you will shine as the sun, your spirit will awaken, you are now complete.
1. Coming home from work late, avoiding certain questions.
2. Non-responsive to things they may have enjoyed or liked before.
3. Showing less affection or no affection at all. “Less sexual activity or non at all”.
4. Sporadic disappearances from time to time, when they would normally be home or at work.
5. Coming up with reasons why they don’t want to spend time with you or go out.
6. Avoid conversations and or matters involving the improvement of your relationship or marriage.
7. Finding reasons to start arguments, also may abuse or hit you if you question their tardiness for coming home late or just anything they may feel to be inconsistent information or suggestions.
Now to my readers around the world, if you encounter any or all the steps above, then you should consider either leaving your partner or have patience and try your best to improve your relationship but if you choose to stay with that person also keep in mind that if your relationship does get better, it’s a good chance they may cheat again so please keep that in mind.
I have compiled a list of thing you could do to investigate if that special someone really loves you and steps to improve your relationship.
1. See if they show affection
2. See if they pay attention to you with genuine concern
3. See if they tell you they love you
4. Read body language – It’s a way of knowing peoples true intention and how they really want to express themselves "Hidden Motives"
5. Examine if they spent enough time with you, and if not figure out why and what you could do to fix the problem
6. This reflex directly with step 5 the key element is "Communication", be sure to reach out to that special person in your life, learn as much as you can, ask them how their day was, ask them if they need anything, be genuinely concerned and act on it. Show them you care and not only tell them, because words become void without action to back it up.
7. Finally just simply spend more time together to build your connection to each other, like going out to a movie, or maybe just a walk down the street could make a impact on your relationship, be creative, find what you have in common and use that information to your advantage.
Good morning world, I would like to introduce you to a person i met on myspace, when i first met her she was in a problem, she needed me to tell her what she did wrong and why her love life never seemed to work out. So this is the message she sent me via myspace :
im 21 with a severly broken heart i gess i just wish to hear life will get better..........i have mental problims that efect day to day life......theres this guy iv secretly loved since grade school .....we met wen my life was bad and so was his........i was sooooooo scared to loose him...hes a 10 .....but i think id rate me no higher then a 7.....confadence......severly lacks tho i beleve he has made it worse i want the best for him and would do almost anything for him ........on a good day die........but he thrw me away for what i can only asume a good lay......shes not so hot and reminds me of a life draind junky.....very frail..........im a big booty chick with valuptuos assets and a good head on my shoulders........where do i go from here now that i descover all my time with him has been esentally wasted cus he dosint like plump woman he likes em frail and relly relly small so theres not much hope for me and my fat ass im very sad please help..
My response :
I would like to start by saying you are beautiful and with that simple fact in place you shouldn't feel that you need a man to make yourself feel complete..god made you with all you could ever need so smile be happy..i would suggest for you to explore yourself and see what makes you happy and do them, i believe your problem is that you have been hurt over and over by men you truly love with all your heart if this is the case maybe you should see why this is happening research and think about your past relationship and think of things you may have done wrong pinpoint the flaw and try to figure out what you could do different next time to make sure your next relationship progresses to something you could be happy for...also you should try giving it a break and focus on yourself and be content and make yourself happy cause that's the main thing people must understand if you cant make yourself happy then how do you expect someone else can ?
Hello everyone and welcome to Romance Topics, my main goals well be to help you with all your relationship/love issues. I understand that it can be frustrating sometimes when you need an answer and cant find one, I promise to give only advice that I know will help you with your problem. My motivation is to help people with all love related issues I am a psychology student and love to learn new things about people so please feel free to post a comment and let me know what your desire is and ill help you through it.
